The Risk to Bring Justin in Chim Family Picture

Life bring variety of family notion to the account. Celebrity’s life is not a marketing agenda to bring the image forward to the audiences. They just a sample of what type of life established within our real world.

Scrutinizing CHIM story meaning, we can not avoid the fact that one of them is picture perfect wife/mom. To my knowledge, it seems that CHIM’s definition of little family at this moment associated strongly with the involvement of 3rd party a.k.a sperm donor/biological father. Of course, they won’t be the first who choose this type of picture of harmonious family. Possibly, to their belief, Bobby is well-nurtured raised by 2 mummies, a daddy, and a step sister. Nothing is wrong within the limit, but don’t expect the decision will bring ace of the hole.

The consequences of every choices made always followed not far from it. First we need to understand, the background motives which lead to the option. I don’t think both Chezza and Kimba breathe inside the atmosphere of -what most people think as- perfect normal family since day one. We all aware with the fact, that both beautiful (inside and out) ladies, came from broken family (their parents divorced when they’r young). To that degree, the motives behind letting the Sperm Donor (Justin – suspected gay male) to involve in their new little family, might more related to their insecurity of revealing their ‘true relationship’ instead of for Bobby’s advantages, whether they would like to admit it or not.

Trying not to neglect the fact of how strong Cheryl is, I have to constantly bring up to my attention, that she is only woman and human afterall. In this regard, I personally don’t think, it would be easy for her to see the image of ‘complete happy’ family when witnessing Kimba-Bobby-Justin together. Despite of how much she love Kimba and taking Bobby as her own flesh and blood offpsring, she might be facing a bitter pill everytime the reality struck, that biologically she could never give Kimba what Justin could.

Not to mention, if we take the big family Tweedy-Walsh into consideration. Based on my apprehension, Walsh’s family willingly to welcome both Justin and Chloe (his daughter from 1st marriage) as their internal members, especially considering Bobby’s relation to them.

But how about Tweedy’s? I am sure it is not easy for them to accept Bobby as their own in the first place, not to mention if now they all aware of the fact that Bobby is belong to someone else instead of just Cheryl’s.

The big picture perfect family which CHIM trying to develop, might not end-up perfectly for Bobby’s sake – if they wanted to maintain Bobby as CHIM’s not Kimstin’s. Bringing Justin-Chloe as Bobby’s integral part, without questioned will omit the Tweedy’s outside the arena. Kimberley need to slap herself at this moment, that the one thing Bobby needs to bond with, for his entire life, is not with his blood-related parties, but with his other maternal’s lineage (Cheryl’s a.k.a Tweedy’s).

Are CHIM elready doing it, behind the curtain of public viewing? Let just see. CHIM have been bragging about their future children next to Bobby for awhile now. To my knowing, Chezza will definitely want a kid of her own this time. It would be fair for CHIM to have both genetic pedigree in their house. If my analytical thinking were correct, Chezza might not choose Justin as the donor, but someone else’s. Because let’s face it, Justin will always be ‘a threat’ and ‘enemy’ for Chezza’s unconscious mind, because he is after all the real ‘father’ of her first son, Bobby; and will always be the man that give her wife a son which she could never able to.

Final note, I sure hope, it wont wind up like this case.

Cheryl and Liam Payne Bearding Each Other

We are living in homophobic society. Bearding is part of the result of it. For gay celebrities, showing as het-couple with their beards are common knowledge. The industry in which they plunged into, pressed that notion for them to abide without question. It is “take it or leave it” situation.

So in my opinion, celebrity with bearding scenario, merely a victim. Yes, you can disagree by saying ‘everyone has the choice’, however… taken it in their perspective (the celeb), it won’t be a light decision to make.

And it is actually not strange to all of us, if we dare to take the same position into our own. Just say, if your financial completely entangled by your corporate policy, would it be easy for you to just back out and run whenever something against your will?

Now, let’s talk about CHIM and their bearding partners. At the moment, Kimba is considered ‘a happy married person’ complete with a child. While as for Chezza, she’s involved in the hype with One Direction’s member – Liam Payne. I have wrote about Kimstin (Kimba+Justin) the other day, so now to make it fair – let’s dig lil further on CHERIAM (Cheryl+Liam) relationship.

Cheryl had known Liam Payne for a long time. She was the one who judged him during X Factor’s audition which got him picked as one of -later known as- famous boyband One Direction (1D)’s member. They even might already goodfriend since then, knowing Chezza mentioned Liam during Ice Bucket Challenge video shooting (along with Pierce Morgan and Nicola Roberts) as the next candidate for the challenge. Both dear to Simon Cowell, so presumably, the setup was first proposed by him. Simon, for some, is no secret as closeted gay too. So Liam Payne is gay? I have no direct answer. But I can forward you to some of the ‘clues’ given by 1D shipper, particularly ZIAM shipper.

Who/what is ZIAM? Ziam is a nickname given by the stans who ship Zayn Malik (also 1D member) and Liam Payne relationship. From what I can see, it is not just a myth. They are really indeed a couple -almost similar like CHIM itself (some even believed ZIAM were married already). To be honest, at first, I only heard rumours about ZIAM, but not until I saw this footage made by ZIAM shipper that I am totally convinced:

See the footage here.

Seeing the video, I begin to wonder what made Liam now agree to beard with Chezza. From some of amateur video found in youtube, clearly Chezza is no longer in the mood to take the relationship look convincing. When they were off camera, Chezza look totally numb beside Liam. Example of this, back in mid May during Global Gift Gala Award, where CHERIAM appeared together as ‘lovely couple’. But off camera, they barely spoke to each other (article talking about it). There were actually pictures depicting that moment. But i am having trouble to find it again (perhaps later I will update this post).

So what’s going on with Chezza now? She doesn’t seem to enjoy bearding anymore. Does it have anything to do with Bobby being born? Perhaps. Because if we go back to the past, we would see how Chezza playing the bearding game pretty smooth with Ashley Cole. Although, don’t expect to see them caught snogging. The farthest thing they’ve ever done, was a quick-barely touch lips kissing.

As for Liam, perhaps, he’s doing this to take ‘a sweet revenge’ to his lover, Zayn Malik, who was taking the bearding role to their convenience initially. And CHIM? I think both mature women may have different viewpoint. I’ve read from someone claiming to know “the insider story” that Kimba had long being pushed by “the industry” to tie the knot. The reason for this, is not for Kimba sake but for Chezza, for she’s the one who is ‘The National Sweetheart’.

Honestly, I kinda still fumbling about CHIM reason to bearding. I know, that it was their decision based on mutual agreement. But who enjoy it the most? Which CHIM that is more reluctant to reveal their relationship to public? Is it Chezza or Kimba?

I may have to write this specific topic in different post. But as for now, for you CHIM doubter, just look at this way: on Camera – CHIM can not exist. But off camera – CHIM are at home happily with their cute lil son to raise.

Cheryl Instagram post when she missed Kimberley. This ornament is actually hanged on the wall of Kimba’s house.

 

 

 

A little ‘Psychoanalytic’ Study On Cheryl Girls Aloud Multiple Surnames

I realize, tis post title look ‘heavy’. But I do want to analyse Cheryl Tweedy Cole Fernandez-Versini behaviour in changing her surname multiple time. I come accross an article discusing Cheryl’s ‘habit’ but in feminist perspective. I think the columnist may have barking up the wrong tree there.

Since this is my personal “CHIM home”, I am fully aware of my prerogative. Readers with vary in opinions are welcome. But still, I need to assert my point a view regarding this ‘out loud’.

From my observation, my understanding of Cheryl as character is someone with vigorous belief in her ‘self’ which later explained her fiesty, down to earth, and warm manners. I also considered her as feminist. She always look upset with any attempt on exposing female sexuality vulgarly. By all means, the “vulgar” definition about female sexuality may differ according to culture/nation/religious belief. Moreover, quoting Mel B (former Spice Girls’s member): “Cheryl is not bitchy at all…”

Not only Cheryl is not a bitchy girl, she also not a “weak” female. She’s infact the type of Alpha female, who can stand up and speak out for her opinion without fear. She’s very truth to her own nature. She disgraces male exert exploitation in female sexuality, and she did look uncomfortable with alpha male cavalier attitude (nope, I am not talking about Simon Cowell here).

She’s also not the type of person who ‘changing clothe’ from time to time, looking for identity. She’s strong – not weak – remember. Her assertiveness can also be trace in her firmly holds a notion, without much alterations over time.

So what’s up with her act in multi-surnames’ scheme which contradict her character?

Nope, I don’t think she was ashamed with her Tweedy root nor she think the name is not “selling” enough. The only reason, I can think of, is her insecurity in disclosing her sexual orientation. She’s trying to hide her lesbianism. She thought, it is only “natural” as “normal” woman to use her hubby’s name during marriage. She really scared on being outed, she neglected the fact, that her act upon changing surname multiple time in brief ‘well-organized’ plot, would look ridiculous up to horrendous. She is ‘impelled’ to transgress her own feminist nature, only to appear ‘straight-normal’ in public eye.

If not because Kimberley Walsh by her side, I am sure Cheryl already shattered by now. Because it is against her nature to act differently from what she really is. I think CHIM have passed long discussion about how to continue pursuing their dream to be POP STARS at the same time hold together as lover/soulmate. Both women seem to identify themselves not merely by their sexual orientation but also by their dreams and passions. Thus, the source of their vulnerability. External force to maintain the bearding acts, added more fuel to the fire.

In effort to be conclusived in this short writing, I say, Cheryl Tweedy might learned already as of now, that displaying her feminism will not automatically outed her. She needs to understand first hand to differentiate her true character from her hidden ‘fact’ of falling in love with the same gender. The same as she can be both “fashion icon” in her profession and maintain her tomboy-casual outfit at home.

Taken from Lily England (Cheryl Tweedy Cole Fernandez-Versini’s PA) Instagram

Did Cheryl Present During Kimberley’s Delivery?

According to Kimba’s official statement in media, Chezza arrived an hour after Bobby delivery. Well, won’t buy that in a million. I prefer to imagine otherwise. In one of the interview (watch it in youtube here), Chezza clearly overwhelmed about welcoming Bobby for the first time. “I’ve booked out a couple of weeks just to make sure I’m around!”

Cheryl Cole excitement on Kimberley Walsh giving birth: “I’ve booked out a couple of weeks just to make sure I’m around!”

And based on this source, Kimba gave birth in Thursday evening, 16.52pm to be exact. She was infact already suffered pre-labour construction pain in Wednesday, and might admitted to the hospital at the same day.

Where was Chezza? To general public, she was still in France with his newly hubby (beard). She made sure the ‘tale’ look convincing enough by letting pap’s shoots on their ‘holiday’ and letting the France dude to make short appearance in her ice bucket challenge video. But you know what, do you think that Chezza would want to miss her “wifey” giving birth to their first child, for the world? She was certainly not.

Chezza flew back to London just as soon as Kimba’s being admitted for labour. She was caught arriving in Heathrow with her beard in Wednesday (read the article here). Her facial expression look worried. She must be thinking about Kimba’s condition the whole time, and could not wait to be by her side.

In concluding thought, regardless of their “media drama”, both CHIM deserve ‘a tribute’ for their loyal-committed-passionate longterm relationship. If these duo manage to overcome the complexity of their situation well for over a decade, it is more than ‘ring the bell’ that their love is solid-proof!

It started from Popstars Audition…

CHIM story began from the audition of UK TV Reality Show PopStars- The Rival, in 2002. Back then, Chezza was still 19 y.o, and Kimba was 2 years old older. They both chosen as the winner to form the group of 5 girls which then known as Girls Aloud.

Baby Chim. Chezza 19 y.o. Kimba 21 y.o

In my opinion, CHIM already feel the connection from the moment they lay eyes on each other. Atleast, they both aware of the attraction. But, perhaps, there’s possibility that they still not sure what’s going on, and continue with their “ordinary life” like Chezza said to be dating a fellow boy contestant during the show. It was admitted by both Chezza and the boy. (Chezza interview about dating the boy).

It is only make sense, that during that time, ‘baby’ CHIM haven’t define their sexual orientation yet. They probably did what every other teenage girls would be doing. Dating boys, etc. I won’t say that this means they were being closeted. I sincerely believe, during this period of teenage years, before they met each other, being growing up in small city, they probably haven’t even realize that any affection they have toward same sex peers would lead to something sexual. None of them, I think, had discovered the feeling of real “in love” yet. CHIM were just two ordinary girls back then.

The case became twisted, when they met each other during audition for the TV reality show. It clearly “crushed” – love at first sight – u may say. But definitely, nothing that both of them would instantly thinking as: “falling in love”. Although, that what they might have experienced that time. In one of the interview (you can check this out on youtube), Chezza said that she was right away felt something for Kimba, that was translated as “admiration” for her skin. Chezza found Kimba as “striking, beautiful, gorgeous, cool, and very attractive.” Sounds really smitten, right? ^-^

While Chezza being fierce person, dare to approach first, Kimba in the other hand stayed in her “cool” apparatus and just revealed “a tiny bit” of what she might really think of that moment.

and I just remember thinking – OOH, she’s so cute! – and she had that amazing dimple that i was just like – ughh, I’m so jealous of that dimple – Kimberley

When it all started to blossom then? Well, we would never know for sure, unless they decided to go frontal -just say like- writing a book about it. LOL. But atleast, we were lucky enough to have many evidences to take a glimpse on their love journey – which i considered as one of the most amazing relationship, ever!

Watch the VIDEO MONTAGE of CHIM SECRET LOVE here!

 

(Read an article covered chim story here)